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The care and feeding of the "soul" has been an ongoing theme in my life and teaching for a number of years now. The more I search inside of myself and the more I allow myself to be guided by my "soul," the more amazing my life becomes. It's an inside job! Years ago, I used to teach a workshop called "Begin from Within" -- it's a powerful directive and some of the best wisdom that I ever received. That was a soul workshop...

So, what exactly is the "soul"? It's not an easy thing to define. The first thing that comes to me is that it is that constant, small, soft voice -- that whisper in your ear that reminds you to take a deep breath, or to slip your shoes off and walk around in the grass for a while. It's the moment that you feel like breaking out into a song, no matter whether you are in the shower or in the middle of a crowd walking down 5th Avenue. It's the joy you feel at holding a newborn baby and having it grab your finger and hold tight. It's these individual moments as well as the collective energy of these moments -- it's our connection to everyone and everything around us, or rather, our acknowledgement and recognition that we are completely, energetically wired up with everyone and everything around us. We are all part of something that is much bigger than we are -- and it's okay to trust this "something" whether you call it God or Jesus or Divine Consciousness or Buddha or Allah or Goddess. These are all creative names for the same thing.

Perhaps I can make it even easier to distinguish: if you had even one little "Debbie Downer" thought pop into your head as you read that last paragraph, that's NOT your soul! It's your ego! This is the voice that is usually quite loud and fearful and it's always seeking to defend us, even if there is nothing to defend against. The ego does not like change. It doesn't like anything -- situation or person -- that it cannot have some control over (or at least perceived control over). The ego voice is kind of like a car load of drunken teenagers, speeding down the road, hollering at passersby and throwing things out the window. It's frequently angry or upset, always seeking attention and never subtle in it's communication or approach. Then again, you may also have an ego voice and side that is quieter, but quite manipulative -- it wants its way, at all costs. The average human being is completely controlled by his or her ego voice and therein you can see why we live in a chaotic world. Money and power always come first with the ego.

How then do we cultivate and feed the soul? I did give a number of suggestions in the 2nd paragraph, but you need to find your own "soul food". What are the things in life that bring you joy? When you start to focus on these, remembering them, writing about them, picking up the phone to connect to someone who brings you joy, you will be feeding your soul. 

If you are feeling overwhelmed, overworked, overwrought with grief or sadness, don't worry. One of the best ways to help yourself tune into your soul voice is to begin a meditation practice. Through meditation, we learn how to quiet the mind -- the ego voice. When we are still and quiet and listen, we can begin to hear our true soul voice coming through. So many wise teachers have said the same thing -- even the Bible says it in it's own language: the answers lie within you. Meditation need not be difficult, but it is a "practice" which means you keep showing up, no matter what, and follow your practice and/or your teacher -- that is what is most important. It's not about how long you sit or walk or the manner is which you sit or walk. I'll offer more about meditation practice in another blog entry, but it's a good place to start to open to your Soul Voice.

Today, in this moment, take a few moments to focus on what makes you happy and joyful. See how that makes you feel -- notice what other juicy thoughts, ideas, and unexpected brilliant plans emerge. It will shift your energy, your day, and your life in ways that you can't imagine! Here's a short list of some great "soul" books that will also inspire you:

Soul Shifts by Dr. Barbara DeAngelis
The Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukav
The Care of the Soul by Thomas Moore


By Raven Seltzer 24 Oct, 2022
The tree is frequently used as a metaphor in our medicine. You come in to see me with symptoms/ complaints -- these are your "branches." And the most visible part of a tree, but just because your branches are painful and sick, weak or broken, doesn't mean they are where the issue started. This is only where it is showing up. Your branches did not become compromised "overnight" -- for instance, with extreme pain or systemic inflammation/auto-immune disorder -- just as with a real tree, it takes years for deep sickness to travel from the root to show up on the surface, but the first sign of real trouble is usually discoloration or spots on the leaves or the branches losing their leaves or becoming brittle. Of course, when it comes to a traumatic accident or injury, or if a woman is pregnant and has symptoms due to her condition, yes, we DO know the root right away, but this approach still comes in handy: sometimes injuries don't heal properly or quickly due to underlying conditions that were present before the incident. And likewise, a woman's pregnancy will definitely be impacted by her overall underlying health before conception. And each pregnancy will also be different. Why is this root and branch approach so important? My job is to use all of the information your give me about your leaves/branches, in addition to looking at your tongue and taking pulses, as well and anything else I observe about you, and find that "root" cause of your symptoms. The more chronic your situation and the more multi-layered it is, the more detective work it takes on my part to find that root, but honestly, that's what makes my work so fascinating and satisfying: No two patients are ever the same -- they may come in with the exact same western diagnosis and symptoms, but I may only use a few overlapping acupuncture points because their underlying conditions and tongue and pulse are completely different. They each have a different root issue, but the branches/surface may look the same. The acupuncture points and combinations are always the same, it's the application of them that changes. Why? Because every human being is entirely unique. And acupuncture and TCM acknowledge and support this -- and as a practitioner, I am trained to go with that flow: to take everything I've learned over the years and apply it to each individual patient as appropriate and necessary. This is in stark contrast to western medicine which takes a "one size fits all" approach to health and focuses on managing symptoms through medications. ******** When it comes to understanding treatment strategy, the tree metaphor is also extremely helpful. For instance, pain is a "branch". I do treat this branch first in order to help bring relief, but at the same time, I am also searching for and treating the underlying root. As the pain diminishes over time, it will no longer be taking "center stage" and other branches will then "rise up" and become more prominent and then can be addressed. Your branches all give me clues as to the root treatment that's needed and whether we are on the right track or we need a detour. And as healing proceeds, other root causes may also be discovered. Sometimes people get excited with immediate results and I am always quite happy for these patients, but I still say "keep going with your treatment plan, don't stop now." Most of you do, but sometimes patients do stop too soon and they back-slide and are left with the impression that "it didn't work," but they actually don't know for sure. If you don't follow the plan or try to mix in different therapies and supplements, it can muddy the waters and make it very difficult to decipher what is actually working and what isn't. On the flip side, some people get impatient and stop after 2 or 3 treatments because they don't feel anything is happening yet -- there have been no "earth-shattering" results. Don't be fooled by this -- you may just be a slow-starter, especially if you are on a laundry list of western medications or have a history of serious illness such as cancer. And it is simply not realistic to expect that a 15 or 20-year chronic condition is going to be eradicated in 1 or even 3 months. Actually, if any health care practitioner promises you some "miracle" like this, please run the other way! Healing is rarely, if ever, a linear, straightforward process. You need to bring your trust, patience and determination to the table, especially when dealing with serious or long-term, chronic illness. And even when you think "nothing" is happening inside of you, remember what a wise teacher once observed: “When you dig a well, there's no sign of water until you reach it; only rocks and dirt to move out of the way. When you have removed enough of the debris, the pure water will flow.” Ultimately, the body has the power to heal itself and acupuncture creates a supportive inner environment to encourage and facilitate this process. Besides being cumulative, it is also curative, meaning that it does not simply manage or suppress symptoms as synthetic drugs do, but it actually heals and cures the body-mind at a deep level. With consistent, regular treatments, we heal your roots and your branches. As always, I am honored to help you clear the debris and get to the root of what's blocking you from flowing in your life and health through the wisdom and knowledge of this ancient medicine.
By Raven Seltzer 10 May, 2022
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By Raven Seltzer 10 May, 2022
Here’s a short list of easy and practical things you can do and choices you can make for yourself to prevent illness during any seasonal change. We tend to be most susceptible when the weather and elements are fluctuating to the extremes. The body-mind, though very resilient, has a very delicate and fragile balance that needs to be honored and preserved. As we move from the cold/damp of Spring into the warm/damp or hot/dry of Summer, try some of these tips: 1) Stick to warm, cooked foods for your main meals. If you eat greens, steam or cook them. If you want to have a salad, go more for room temperature lettuce and vegetables and dressing. Cold and raw are not so easy to digest – the salads are better in Summer and early Fall. 2) Stick to warm or room temperature beverages. Herbal tea and water are best, but if you must have juice, cut it with half water to reduce the sugar (and the inflammation that follows). Cold creates more phlegm/mucus in the system, which can accumulate and cause blockages. 3) Do your best to keep warm – stay out of drafty areas. 4) Keep your neck and throat wrapped with a warm or a decorative scarf. 5) Keep a sweater and light jacket in your car, just in case you end up in a cold, air conditioned building, or the weather suddenly turns cold and windy. 6) Take your Jade Windscreen herbal formula regularly to boost your immune system and prevent illness (Gan Mao Ling may also be used if you notice more of a difference taking it.) 7 ) Vitamin C and D3 are excellent supplements to add to your daily regimen if you haven’t already. 8) Stress makes everything worse, so practice your breathing and letting go. You just need a few minutes, once or twice a day to sit quietly and meditate by counting the breath. Ask me for more details. 9) Make sure you get to bed at a decent hour and get enough good quality, deep sleep . 10) If you have a family with small children, do your best to keep yourself and them well – wash hands often, ask me about “Children’s Jade Defense ” which is a liquid, sweet tasting version of Jade Windscreen for kids. 11) Come on in for an acupuncture immune boost or two!
By Raven Seltzer 02 Apr, 2021
Coming soon!
By Raven Seltzer 02 Apr, 2021
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